Ansari, born on February 23, 1983, got his start as a stand-up comedian, which eventually paved the way for a successful acting, directing, and writing career. His most widely known comedic role was playing Tom Haverford in Parks and Recreation. Due to his success as a comedian and public figure, he had been approached many times by publishers who were hoping that he would write a book. It was only after having a personal dating crisis and realizing that his experience was common among modern singles that he decided to write this book. His experience as a comedian is the driving force behind Modern Romance. While the book relies on personal interviews, data, and expert research, Ansari’s comedic approach to the material is relatable to modern singles.