Wamariya writes that she and Claire have a “knotted relationship” (260). What does she mean by this, and what are some contributing factors to the complexity of their relationship? How are they different, and how are their needs different? What does Wamariya need from Claire, and does she get it? What does Wamariya admire about her sister?

Describe Wamariya’s struggle to assimilate in America. Why does she feel disconnected? How do people misunderstand her? What do they assume about her, and how do their experiences contribute to these misunderstandings? How are her experiences similar when she speaks in front of crowds? What does she do in response?

How does Wamariya feel in between cultures in America, and how does this contribute to her sense of lost identity?