1. General Impressions

Gather initial thoughts and broad opinions about the book.

• Which Sorenson did you identify with most, and why?
• Were you satisfied with where each character ended up? Why or why not?

2. Personal Reflection and Connection

Encourage readers to connect the book’s themes and characters with their personal experiences.

• Discuss how the dynamics of the Sorenson family reflect any dynamics present in your own family.
• The novel presents the bonds of family as unbreakable, even in the face of dishonesty and betrayal. Does this reflect how you view family in your own life? Or do you believe that family is a product of loyalty and choice?
• Each of the Sorenson sisters feels unseen in her own way. Discuss a time when you felt this way, and how you managed it.
• The Sorenson family home represents family heritage and stability within the chaos of the family’s individual lives. Discuss a place that represents this for you (this can be a family home, a public park, a favorite shop or café, or somewhere else).

3. Societal and Cultural Context

Examine the book’s relevance to societal issues, historical events, or cultural themes.

• Consider the way a “perfect” marriage is portrayed in the novel. How does this reflect society’s view of success?
• The novel covers a wide expanse of time, from 1975 to the present day.